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#FreeKesha #SonySupportsRape

Today I heard the news. I am really pissed. No. I am super mega fucking pissed.

Yes, I will be cursing.

I have liked some of her music, but I wouldn’t call myself a die hard fan. Not even a fan, just an occasional listener.

Still, when I learned that she wouldn’t be free from Sony. I honestly felt like flipping over a table Teresa Guidice style.

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Honestly, it may be a bad idea for me to write this unfiltered, but screw it. I’m going to.

They say there is lack of evidence of abuse and rape.

In the case when I was with an abusive individual for almost a year (many many years ago) there would also be lack of evidence (and still is), because most of it was emotional. When it was sexual it usually involved grabbing and such and the bruises would soon fade and I was too embarrassed to talk about it.

Guess what is still happened. Guess what I’m still dealing with the scars from it (although I’m a lot better).

This man, this asshole who calls himself “Dr. Luke” (how fucking pretentious) as of right now is getting away with it.

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I don’t even have the words. I also learned he was born in the same state where I grew up for a good part of my childhood, Rhode Island. I liked that state and that scum was born there.

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The girl was admitted to a rehab center for God’s sake for an eating disorder!

Or is she lying about that too Luke? Is she just making herself have an eating disorder to help support her case to get out of a contract? I mean shit do you have a doctorate? I can’t find any information stating you have even been to college, yet you call yourself Dr. Luke?

Your ego is showing. 

Same time there are rumors surfacing already that he has done shady shit before.

And now these images that are cropping up again (flashback) are starting to make more sense.

 

Another point someone made doesn’t help matters either, in fact in shows how lacking in morals the music industry is.

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Don’t get me started on the whole Chris Brown thing. I’m still irritated by that. That is a whole other post in itself.

By the way as a feminist I have to ask

“Where are all the hollywood feminists at?

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My Thoughts To Roosh V’s “36 Things Wrong with American Women”

 

So I decided to watch this, because it’s important to research the person you want to criticize instead of just blindly following the crowd. Be warned, I will use curses in this post. Also if you are a thinking human being, you will probably need a drink to get through this list.

I am really not kidding, I wish I wasn’t on all the meds I was on, otherwise I would have had a couple of drinks myself. I had to take breaks, it is just amazing to me that people like this still exist. There is so much stupid in on video, your brain will be dumbfounded.

For those that don’t know who Roosh V. is, I will introduce you to him before we start with the list. He is first generation American (Armenian and Iranian). To quote this guy on youtube

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Here is the video:

Here is the Video description

I made this video so American women can understand all the things they do wrong. I hope that they will embark on a journey of self-improvement after watching it.

I even wrote down the list for those who don’t want to watch it, are hard of hearing or deaf because the captions for it suck.  I will respond to each statement after I finished this list. My thoughts in this are italicized. The lines show where Roosh’s statements begin, I skipped the intro (nothing stood out in the intro), but kept the ending in for reasons you will see.

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Roosh’s “36 Things Wrong with American Women” 

  1. They’re fat. Fat girls are simply unattractive. So, why should you waste time dating a fat girl?
  2. They’re constantly glued to their smartphone. These girls are addicted to an electronic device and are less capable of human interaction.
  3. They cut their hair short. They are so lazy to maintain long hair they make themselves ugly on purpose.
  4. They’re more impressed with the crappy DJ or instagram celebrity than a doctor who saves lives.
  5. They think being overly sarcastic is a quality that men love. Wrong, being sarcastic is rude and doesn’t show that you have a good sense of humor.
  6. They listen to stupid websites when it comes to learning how to please men.
  7. They don’t know how to cook. They’re idea of cooking is using a microwave or preparing macaroni and cheese and some women don’t even know how to do that.
  8. They wear flips flops when they are not at the beach, not at the pool or not in their house.  Flip flops are the laziest footwear you can put on and it screams to the world you simply don’t care.
  9. They have condoms in their dresser because they are fully prepared to sleep with random men. A man only wants a girl to be a slut for himself, not the entire town.
  10. They idolize drug addicted celebrities aiming to mimic their dead brain behavior. The role model for todays girl is Kim Kardashian, not a woman who actually achieved things in life.
  11. They acquire pets instead of putting in the work to land a quality man. When a woman gives up in life she buys a dog, this is sad.
  12. They don’t know how to be sexy and feminine, only trashy and slutty. Modern American women have no idea how to be a lady on the streets.
  13. They have standards way beyond their level of attractiveness. Even an average girl thinks she should land a prince charming.
  14. They think that to have a good job means they are a quality girl and a good catch. Newsflash, guys don’t care about your stupid office job nonprofit gig.
  15. They wear pajamas in public, this is retarded.
  16. They enjoy books like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey, and The Secret. They are addicted to dead brain entertainment that makes them dumber.
  17. Their idea of travel is going to the beach or France. They have no idea how to use travel to learn about other cultures.
  18. They have too many trashy tattoos. Too many American women these days look like prison convicts.
  19. They are proud to be dating many men at the same time as if they were men themselves. These days women have no shame in hiding the fact they are sluts.
  20. They do and say filthy things in bed, even the first time you have sex with them as if they were an amateur porn actress. You know they are doing that to every other guy as well.
  21. They cockblock their own girlfriends when they are jealous. They can’t have it so their friend meets someone while they don’t.
  22. They make lame excuses for not putting effort into their appearance. It seems like a race to the bottom for every girl to be as homely as possible.
  23. #24 -(wait wheres #23) They always lie the first time you get them in bed saying “I’ve never done this before,” we know that’s a lie, but they continue saying it for every guy they sleep with.
  24. #25- (yeah, I think he skipped a number, misspoke, or can’t count) They confused being a challenge with being whiny and annoying. They have no idea how stupid they look when they give men are hard time for spending time with them.
  25. #26-They watch way too much TV, letting it influence their personalities. When you go on a date with an American girl, you are dating a combination of characters she has seen on television
  26. #27-On the way home from their comfortable office job they take off their work shoes and put on dirty sneakers. They have no idea how much of a slob they look when they do this.
  27. #28- They age their skin prematurely through fake tans. Maybe they will look good this week or next month, but in a few years time they are going to look like a raisin.
  28. #29-They insist on eating pizza, gyro, and other fattening food after a night of binge drinking and then they wonder why they are so fat.
  29. #30-They’re obsessed with cupcakes. An American woman gets satisfaction from eating tiny baked goods.
  30. #31-They care more about maintaining a career than a good home or family. She has made money the most important part of her life more than having kids or a good husband.
  31. #32-They rarely wear high heels, one of the most feminine behaviors that a woman can do.
  32. #33-They think dining out and eating food slathered with butter and salt makes them cultured and they call themselves a foodie while they do it. It just makes them fat instead.
  33. #34- They don’t speak any foreign languages. They think America is the center of the universe.
  34. #35-Their intellectual curiosity doesn’t go beyond the pages of gawker or buzzfeed. To get them to actually learn about the truths of the world is impossible.
  35. And Lastly #36-They drone on and on about the stupidest personal drama and nonsense. Thinking the day to day things they come across are critically important to anyone else

So there you have it, 36 (it’s 35) that are wrong with American women. While no woman of the world is perfect, I find that American women have the most flaws out of all the other foreign women I’ve dated. If you are stuck dating American girls right now, it would be worth your time and energy to see what foreign women have to offer you.

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I actually feel physically ill just typing this list up; listening to it over and over again to make sure I got his exact words. My reaction upon listening to this individual and typing up this entire list.

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By the way. congratulations. You made it through this asinine list created by a manchild that is upset that women want to be their own person and have a desire for independence.

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That list was painful to type up, for those that didn’t want to watch the video or for those that are hard of hearing or deaf, you are welcome.

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Headache starting thanks to this

Now onto my thoughts. I will respond to each individual remark he made with my own. His words will be in italics, my response won’t be.

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50 Signs That Show You Can Read (or Watch) 50 Shades of Grey, Without Falling under its Spell

The Movie is coming out this weekend and all I can do is shudder. Many people around the world have read this abuse book disguised as erotica and have fallen under its spell. Sadly many of those same people will go out and watch the movie too (granted the script will probably be better than the book because they have someone who can write.) This makes me depressed.

There are those of us of course who recognize all these problems and still come out alive, but perhaps a little bit scarred as a result. You have my sympathies, but at least we are informed.

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Breaking a Nose, Over a Pair of Shoes

In Georgia a fight broke out between two boys. Well I wouldn’t say it was so much of a fight, it was a beat down. David Egan (16 years old) was beaten by the other boy because the other boy accused David of taking a pair of sneakers…

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While watching the video I was shocked!  No one intervened except when the kid was on the floor, and than I think an adult came by.  I know this was a locker room, but did no teacher hear what was going on? Also if you watch the video below isn’t it odd how the camera is recording, before the fight? It is as if the person recording knew the fight was going to happen.

I think because they knew about the fight and, and they recorded it, they should get in some amount of trouble. There were many students that were also encouraging the fight to happen. What will be done about them? Do we want kids encouraging each other to fight? What is wrong with you people?!?

The kid punches Egan in the face. he stumbles towards the lockers where he is shoved from behind face first into the metal. When he turns around, he is punched again and knocked to the ground. He didn’t have a chance to defend himself! He was still trying to recoup from the last two punches and having his face bashed against the locker!

No student intervened. People were just recording and watching. The only way a student could have possible intervened without me seeing it on camera is if they ran to get a teacher. If a student actually did that, thank you. You are a better person than all of the guys that were in the locker room not doing anything. You are 10 times better than the person who was recording the fight. And you are 20 times better than the guy who punched the kid in the face a few times over a pair of shoes.

The kid who punched Egan over a pair of shoes had apparently reported them missing the day before this incident took place. I guess he heard a rumor that Egan had them and decided to take matters into his own hands. Others must have known about it too, how else would they have begun recording the incident before it happened? If others knew about it beforehand, this shows this we premeditated and this should be taken seriously.

I don’t care if this kid took the shoes. It doesn’t make what he did right. Egan did not go up to the kid and say, “I want you to punch me in the face so hard my nose will be separated from my skull and I will need extensive surgery.” Even than, you can walk away from that, its called free will; making the right choice. The smart person, if they heard anything, would have reported the details to whoever is in charge of missing items and the person in charge could investigate.

I don’t see how complicated that concept is!

But noooooooooo, we are going to act immature. We are going to show that we are real men and we can do things like how “real men” would. I am going to show that I am tough guy. I am going to show the whole world that I can’t be walked all over, because I am a MAN! I am strong!

When I heard where Parkview High School was located (Lilburn, GA), that it was a public school, and it was 30 mins away from Atlanta. I am sorry to say that I was not surprised.

What did surprise me most of all was the schools reaction. This kid was obviously (from watching the video) punched in the nose a few times.  Just looking at his face in the pictures below showed that he had serious damage done to him. The high school doesn’t call the ambulance and the parent at the same time to let them know what was going on. No, instead they just call the dad to have him picked up.

As to what happened to the kid who threw the punch, no idea what his name is or what actions are taken place beyond the fact that are “disciplinary.”

As of right now the attacker is being charged as a Juvenille. The father is upset and has every right to be. He is calling for the kid to be tried as an adult, since he is 16 and just 2 years away from being an adult.  The father stated, “He didn’t throw sand in his eyes, he didn’t stab him in the arm with a pencil, he broke his skull.” Although it was the nose that was “separated” from the skull, still he makes a point. There are other boys that are being investigated as well, although it is unknown as to whether or not they are being disciplined or tried.

It doesn’t help that this is nothing new. Fights at the school according to students, were normal and common. And according to records the number of fights have increased over the past year.
The  District School district spokesperson was asked to speak on the manner

Jorge Quintana,

“The student is a juvenile. I understand that this offense does not qualify to charge a juvenile as an adult in the state of Georgia. The seven offenses under which a juvenile can be charged as an adult are listed under OCGA 15-11-560.

“Typically when there is a fight, 911 is not called as adults intervene. Injured students are typically taken to the clinic to receive immediate care from the clinic worker. Parents are then called. The school handled this case well, acting immediately to care for the injured student and to investigate so that appropriate disciplinary and criminal charges could be made.”

To counter this statement:

  1. The adults were slow in their response to intervene.
  2. His nose was badly broken, what could the clinic worker do? Give him Tylenol and tell him to walk it off?
  3. Parents should have been called right away.

Also what if they kid had been knocked out? Would they have called the ambulance or just take him to the clinic and call his dad? Egan was lying on the floor before an adult intervened. Where were all the adults? He had to be walked to the clinic in pain, and only than was his father called.

Being curious I  also looked up the 7 offenses. I checked a few law wedsites to confirm that the list below is legitimate. Here is the main site I used though.

The seven offenses are:

  1. Murder
  2. Voluntary Manslaughter
  3. Rape
  4. Aggravated Sodomy
  5. Aggravated Child Molestation
  6. Aggravated Sexual Battery
  7. Armed Robbery with a Firearm

All he had to do was kill the kid before he could be tried as an adult? Come on, this is ridiculous. If you look at the pictures below, this could have permanently damaged him. Since his nose was already away from his skull, imagine if the kid kept on hitting him! Let us look at the intent, he may not wanted to have killed the kid, but he definitely wanted to knock him out. The attacker only stopped once an adult entered the picture.

I hope the kid is charged as an adult, cause wouldn’t this be considered aggravated assault with intent to do bodily harm?!? I know that is not one of the 7, but it should be added to the list.

This needs to be stopped. This is ridiculous! If kids are this violent in high school, they should be treated as adults!

Warning there will be some disturbing images and videos linked on this page. If you don’t want to see it don’t look.

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Oh yeah, this is nothing more than a scrape (sarcasm).

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Before Surgery

 

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After Surgery

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I guess the school wouldn’t call this a big deal.

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